Therapist Directory

The therapy listings are provided by BetterHelp and we may earn a commission if you use our link - At no cost to you.

Dabney Hayes, LPCC, LPC

Dabney Hayes provides trauma-informed counseling and support
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Stress and anxiety
  • Family and relationship issues

About Dabney Hayes

Dabney Hayes is a licensed counselor based in North Carolina with 14 years of clinical experience working across individual and group settings. She holds LPCC and LPC credentials - state licenses that qualify her to practice as a professional counselor - and brings a compassionate, nonjudgmental approach to her work.

Her practice addresses a broad range of concerns, including stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, addiction, depression, relationship and family difficulties, grief and loss, compassion fatigue, eating and sleeping challenges, parenting and career issues, bipolar disorder, ADHD, and intimacy-related matters. She also works with issues such as abandonment, attachment and foster care matters, body image, caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, codependency, and blended family dynamics.

Dabney has experience supporting children, adolescents, young adults, and families, and she draws from an integrative, client-centered orientation that adapts to each person’s needs. Her clinical approach includes Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Attachment-Based Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, Narrative Therapy, Psychodynamic Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy, Somatic Therapy, Trauma-Focused Therapy, and Existential Therapy.

She aims to help people heal wounds rooted in shame or self-criticism, build a different relationship with their thoughts, and move toward more authentic, confident living. Dabney emphasizes empathy and respect in therapy and supports individuals in developing practical coping skills and long-term personal growth.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Attachment-Based Therapy Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) Existential Therapy Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) Mindfulness Therapy Motivational Interviewing Narrative Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Somatic Therapy Trauma-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Dabney Hayes have?

Dabney Hayes has 14 years of experience.

Is Dabney Hayes a licensed therapist?

Yes. She holds the credentials LPCC and LPC. License details include CA LPCC 21269 and CO LPC 0016842.

In which languages does Dabney Hayes provide therapy?

English

Where is Dabney Hayes located?

North Carolina

How can I work with Dabney Hayes as my therapist?

You can work with Dabney Hayes through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dabney Hayes work with international clients?

Yes, Dabney Hayes works with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dabney Hayes cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, just click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Just click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could Virtual Counseling Be a Good Fit?

Many people wonder whether counseling delivered remotely can make a meaningful difference. For a range of common concerns - including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and life transitions - online therapy has been shown to be comparable in effectiveness to traditional in-person sessions for many individuals.



One of the biggest benefits is flexibility. People can connect with therapists in the format that works best for them: video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging. That adaptability makes it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, manage caregiving or work obligations, and maintain continuity of care when travel or relocation is a factor.



Therapists offering remote services are licensed professionals who use established clinical approaches to support clients. Many people find that virtual counseling provides practical, accessible support for coping strategies, emotional processing, relationship work, and skills building. If the therapeutic relationship doesn’t feel like the right fit, clients typically have the option to switch to another licensed professional.

Ready to start therapy with Dabney Hayes?

Take the first step toward a better you.