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Dr. Lou Bordisso, LMFT

Experienced LMFT supporting identity and relationships
  • 35 years experience
  • LGBTQ affirmative care
  • Video phone chat messaging

About Dr. Lou Bordisso

Dr. Lou Bordisso is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) with 35 years of clinical experience helping people work through complex emotional and relational challenges. He focuses on identity, relationships, and personal growth, bringing long-standing experience working with LGBTQ+ communities and supporting issues such as stress, anxiety, depression, and major life transitions. Dr. Bordisso combines steady clinical expertise with an affirming stance to help clients explore difficult feelings and move toward clearer self-understanding.

His practice emphasizes compassion and practical skills - helping people cultivate self-compassion, strengthen communication, and reduce isolation. He has particular skill supporting those facing midlife transitions, young adult changes, workplace stress, and intricate interpersonal dynamics. Whether addressing social anxiety, relationship conflicts, or the desire for deeper personal insight, he provides a calm, non-judgmental environment for exploration and growth.

Committed to inclusivity, Dr. Bordisso honors the intersections of identity and mental health and aims to empower clients to build resilience, increase self-awareness, and form more meaningful connections. He holds a California license - CA LMFT 22768 - and draws on decades of experience to tailor care to each person's needs.

Areas of Expertise

Primary Focus

Stress, AnxietyLGBTGriefDepression

Also Specializes In

AddictionsRelationship issuesFamily conflictsIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemCareer difficultiesCoping with life changes

Additional Focus Areas

AbandonmentAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBody imageCancerCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsDependent personalityEmptinessFamily of origin issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImpulsivityIsolation / lonelinessLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-loveSex addictionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Existential Therapy Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Dr. Lou Bordisso have?

Dr. Lou Bordisso has 35 years of experience.

Is Dr. Lou Bordisso a licensed therapist?

Yes. He is an LMFT, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. His California license is CA LMFT 22768.

In which languages does Dr. Lou Bordisso provide therapy?

Dr. Lou Bordisso provides therapy in English.

Where is Dr. Lou Bordisso located?

Dr. Lou Bordisso is located in California.

How can I work with Dr. Lou Bordisso as my therapist?

You can work with Dr. Lou Bordisso through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dr. Lou Bordisso work with international clients?

Dr. Lou Bordisso does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dr. Lou Bordisso cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

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Many people wonder whether meeting with a therapist online can really help. For a wide range of common concerns - including stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and navigating life changes - online therapy is often comparable in effectiveness to traditional in-person sessions. It can be a practical option for addressing emotional and relational difficulties.

One major advantage is flexibility. People can connect with a therapist in the way that best fits their life - by video call, phone session, live chat, or text-based messaging. This flexibility can make it easier to maintain continuity of care alongside work, family, and other responsibilities.

Licensed professionals provide online services, and many clients find it straightforward to change therapists if they are seeking a different fit. When considering online therapy, individuals can weigh the convenience and accessibility alongside their personal preferences to determine whether virtual sessions align with their needs.

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