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Dr. Ralph Datema, LMFT

Experienced Colorado Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
  • Marriage and family therapy
  • Support for seniors
  • Systemic therapy approach

About Dr. Ralph Datema

Dr. Ralph Datema is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) practicing in Colorado with more than 40 years of clinical experience. He has worked as a marriage and family therapist, mental health therapist, and pastoral psychotherapist, supporting people facing depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, parenting concerns, struggles of faith, and various levels of trauma.

His therapeutic stance is supportive and reflective, encouraging clients to explore their relationship to self, life, and others. He works with individuals, couples, and families and has particular experience addressing issues that arise with aging, including work with senior couples and older adults. His method blends cognitive-behavioral, humanistic, psychodynamic, and rational approaches while grounding treatment in systemic therapy principles that help separate the self from external historical influences.

Dr. Datema tailors conversations and treatment plans to the distinct needs of each person or family. He emphasizes empowerment and thoughtful reflection as central elements of the work, and his practice is shaped by decades of experience integrating varied therapeutic traditions into practical, person-centered care.

Areas of Expertise

Additional Focus Areas

Multicultural concernsPersonality disordersPrejudice and discrimination

Therapeutic Approach

Client-Centered Therapy Existential Therapy Gottman Method Mindfulness Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy Solution-Focused Therapy Internal Family Systems

Frequently Asked Questions

How much experience does Dr. Ralph Datema have?

Dr. Ralph Datema has 45 years of experience.

Is Dr. Ralph Datema a licensed therapist?

Yes. He holds the LMFT credential, which stands for Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. License details are CO LMFT MFT.0000105.

In which languages does Dr. Ralph Datema provide therapy?

Dr. Ralph Datema provides therapy in English.

Where is Dr. Ralph Datema located?

Dr. Ralph Datema is located in Colorado.

How can I work with Dr. Ralph Datema as my therapist?

You can work with Dr. Ralph Datema through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

Does Dr. Ralph Datema work with international clients?

Dr. Ralph Datema does not currently work with international clients.

How much does therapy with Dr. Ralph Datema cost?

The cost of therapy can vary depending on factors such as your location and the therapist's availability. Sessions are billed through a subscription that can be canceled at any time, for any reason. For current details, click the "Start Therapy" button on this page.

How can I get started with therapy?

Getting started with therapy is quick and straightforward. Click the "Start Therapy" button and complete a short questionnaire that helps match you with your therapist. Depending on availability, you can then schedule your first session, which may take place by phone, video call, live chat, or in-app messaging.

Could Remote Therapy Fit My Needs?

Many people wonder whether remote therapy can truly help. For common concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and navigating life changes, research and clinical practice indicate outcomes that are comparable to traditional in-person care. That means therapists can address these issues effectively through online formats.



A major benefit of remote sessions is flexibility. Clients may choose the interaction style that fits their lifestyle and comfort level - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or in-app messaging - making it easier to include therapy in a busy routine. This flexibility can remove logistical barriers and support more consistent attendance.



All participating practitioners are licensed professionals, and clients are able to request a different therapist if they feel a different fit would be more helpful. For many people, online therapy offers a practical, accessible option to pursue personal growth and work through challenges with trained therapists.

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